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Mars square Mars in synastry: what it changes in the relationship
Your Marses rub against each other: arguments can be sharp and rhythms different. Sport together and shared projects channel this energy.
Your Marses rub against each other: arguments can be sharp and rhythms different. Sport together and shared projects channel this energy. When one person’s Mars is square the other’s Mars, desire, energy, a way of fighting and desire, energy, a way of fighting rub against each other: a contact that stimulates, and asks for adjustment.
In synastry the aspect reads both ways: your Mars on their Mars, or their Mars on your Mars. The person whose planet is Mars brings desire, energy, a way of fighting; the one whose planet is Mars brings desire, energy, a way of fighting. The square creates productive friction: both want something, not in the same way, and the relationship grows every time the friction becomes a dialogue.
The lever of a tense aspect: translate the friction into words before it becomes a reproach. Mars seeks to act and to be desired; Mars seeks to act and to be desired. When each understands what the other seeks, the tension becomes shared energy.
Your strengths
- ✦Real attraction and stimulation
- ✦A relationship that makes both evolve
- ✦A friction that turns creative once named
Your growth levers
- ↗Not turning friction into reproach
- ↗Accepting that the other wants it differently
The advice
When it grinds, say what you are looking for rather than what the other does wrong: that is the moment the aspect transforms.
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Questions about Mars square Mars in synastry
What does Mars square Mars in synastry mean in a birth chart?
Your Marses rub against each other: arguments can be sharp and rhythms different. Sport together and shared projects channel this energy. Your Marses rub against each other: arguments can be sharp and rhythms different. Sport together and shared projects channel this energy. When one person’s Mars is square the other’s Mars, desire, energy, a way of fighting and desire, energy, a way of fighting rub against each other: a contact that stimulates, and asks for adjustment.
What are the strengths of Mars square Mars in synastry?
Real attraction and stimulation. A relationship that makes both evolve. A friction that turns creative once named.
What are the challenges of Mars square Mars in synastry?
Not turning friction into reproach. Accepting that the other wants it differently.
How do you make the most of Mars square Mars in synastry?
When it grinds, say what you are looking for rather than what the other does wrong: that is the moment the aspect transforms.